I’ve been where you are, that’s why I can help.
Chuck Chapman M. A.
I’m Chuck Chapman, and I'm a man who wants to help other men be the best they can be. I am a licensed professional counselor in the State of Oregon and I've been doing this for the last 15 years.
Education and Training
I hold a BS in Human Development and a Master of Arts degree in Counseling Psychology. My educational journey has been enriched by intensive studies with renowned experts like Dr. Robert Glover, John Wineland, and the Gottman Institute. These experiences have profoundly shaped my approach to counseling.
Professional Background
I am licensed in the state of Oregon as a Professional Counselor, I offer counseling therapy designed for men seeking deeper fulfillment and transformation in their personal lives, specializing in Nice Guy Syndrome and helping them reclaim their masculine energy with confidence and integrity. Please note that I am only licensed to practice therapy in the state of Oregon.
My Counseling Offering:
I offer one-on-one counseling to individuals located in the State of Oregon. I specialize in working with men who are successful in most aspects of their lives but lack depth and intimacy in their personal relationships. I work with men to bring out their masculine energy, helping them lead in their relationships without falling into caretaking or codependency.
My Approach: M.E.N. (Masculine Embodiment Neuropsychology)
My approach to counseling using the M.E.N. (Masculine Embodiment Neurotherapy) model is grounded in a holistic and integrative framework that addresses the mind, body, and spirit. This model leverages the power of masculine embodiment practices combined with neuropsychology to facilitate profound personal transformation. By focusing on core masculine principles, we help men reconnect with their authentic selves, fostering leadership, emotional resilience, and deeper relational intimacy. Through weekly one-on-one sessions, clients engage in tailored practices that cultivate masculine energy, promote self-awareness, and break free from limiting beliefs. The M.E.N. model empowers men to lead their lives with integrity, courage, and compassion, ultimately enabling them to build stronger, more meaningful connections in all aspects of their lives.
Authorship
I've written two books that I'm particularly proud of. The first is "Finding Your Way Without Losing Yourself - The Path of Integrity," which dives deep into how we can stay true to ourselves while navigating life's challenges. The second is "No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal," a practical guide designed to help men break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome and reclaim their authentic selves in just a month. Both books are close to my heart and reflect my commitment to helping others live with integrity and authenticity. You can find out more information here
Personal Touch
Beyond my professional work, I am passionate about helping men find deeper meaning and purpose in their lives. My goal is to support men in achieving a profound sense of inner strength, emotional resilience, and authentic power.
Who I Work With
My primary clients tend to be men aged 45+ who have found success in business and industry but struggle in their personal relationships. These men may have unresolved childhood trauma contributing to their feelings of being lost despite their success. My content is designed to speak to the deeper parts of these men, earning their trust and demonstrating the skills to help them lead not just in business, but also in life.
Thank you for visiting my website. I look forward to connecting with you and supporting you on your journey to becoming the best version of yourself.
Masculine Embodiment Neuropsychology (M.E.N)
Nice Guy Syndrome
Nice Guy Syndrome is characterized by men who prioritize pleasing others over their own needs, often leading to resentment and unfulfilling relationships. These men typically struggle with setting boundaries and asserting themselves, believing that being overly accommodating will earn them love and approval.
Relationship Help
Relationship help focuses on improving communication, understanding, and connection between partners, fostering a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. It often involves learning effective conflict resolution skills, setting boundaries, and ensuring both partners feel valued and heard.
Adult ADHD
Undiagnosed ADHD in adults can lead to significant challenges, such as difficulty focusing, disorganization, and impulsive behavior, often without understanding the root cause. These individuals may struggle with maintaining relationships and managing responsibilities, feeling frustrated and overwhelmed without the proper diagnosis and support.
Sexuality
Men and sexual shame often intertwine, causing feelings of inadequacy and guilt that can deeply impact their self-esteem and relationships. This shame may stem from societal expectations, past experiences, or internalized beliefs, leading to difficulties in expressing and embracing their sexuality openly and confidently.
Spirituality
Spiritual abuse can deeply impact areas such as undiagnosed ADHD, Nice Guy Syndrome, relationship help, and sexual shame by eroding an individual's sense of self-worth, trust, and inner peace. This form of abuse often manipulates and controls through distorted spiritual beliefs, leading to emotional and psychological scars that make it difficult for victims to seek help, establish healthy boundaries, and heal from their experiences.